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Why are People Homophobic | Kerala on LGBTQI+

Updated: Nov 8

What is Homophobia?


Homophobia refers to the culturally propagated fear, or more precisely, the bias, hatred, and lack of acceptance directed towards individuals with a same-gender attraction. It coexists with other manifestations of prejudice, including transphobia and biphobia. The spectrum of homophobia spans from mild aversion to intense hostility towards members of the LGBTQIA+ community.


Homophobia can manifest itself in legal restrictions (such as marriage inequality), verbal abuse and hostility, and in extreme cases, it can also result in violence towards queer people.

The term was coined in the late 1960s by an American clinical psychologist in his book ‘Society and the Healthy Homosexual’.


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People who identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual may experience harassment or discrimination from people who are scared of or uncomfortable with these identities.

Internalized Homophobia


Internalized Homophobia encompasses thoughts, behaviors, and attitudes stemming from the belief that homosexuality is sinful or inferior to heterosexuality. This phenomenon is encountered by individuals who identify as non-straight, as they internalize the homophobic attitudes prevalent in a heteronormative society and direct this negativity towards themselves. This struggle is often observed among queer teenagers raised in environments with homophobic parents and peers.


Heteronormativity


Heteronormativity entails the presumption that heterosexuality is the standard and the exclusive valid form of experiencing attraction.


Societies characterized by heteronormativity uphold the belief that heterosexuality is superior, deeming other sexual orientations, such as homosexuality, bisexuality, and asexuality, as incorrect or sinful.


The default assumption is that everyone is heterosexual unless explicitly expressing a non-heteronormative identity through "coming out" as queer.


Why are People Homophobic?


Psychologists have delved into understanding and grappling with homophobia, seeking to uncover the underlying reasons for society's discriminatory attitudes towards individuals with non-heteronormative orientations.

Let us look at some of the reasons why people are homophobic, as suggested by psychologists:


  • IGNORANCE: Psychologists believe there is some truth to this proposition, and some people’s homophobia can be overcome simply by meeting queer people and having a positive experience of the interaction.

  • RELIGION

  • SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE: This kind of homophobia can be combated by altering the pre-existing heteronormative social norms, which discriminate against queer people.

  • REPRESSION OF HOMOSEXUALITY: It states that some people display homophobic behaviors because they cannot come to terms with their own sexuality and homosexual urges. They have a hard time accepting who they are because society is heteronormative and prejudiced against queer people

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Dialogue and Conversation

The stigma and intolerance of sexualities other than heterosexuality is a serious societal issue that must be taken care of. We, as a society, must foster attitudes of acceptance and love for the LGBTQIA+ community.

We must attempt to amend laws of a homophobic nature. Parents must support their children who have come out to them, and we must teach all children to be accepting of queer people.

Lastly, we must focus on making mental health resources available to queer individuals to protect their lives.

"We deserve to experience love fully, equally, without shame, and without compromise." - Elliot Page


In recent years, Kerala has witnessed a gradual transformation in attitudes towards the LGBTQI+ community. From the colorful celebrations of Pride events to the emergence of support groups and advocacy organizations, Kerala's journey towards LGBTQI+ acceptance reflects a growing recognition of diversity and equality. Discover how Kerala's rich cultural heritage intersects with modern progressive ideals, fostering an environment of tolerance, respect, and celebration of individual identity. Acceptance of movies like 'Kathal' is indeed a good sign.

Frequently Asked Questions


Why is mental health support important for the LGBTQIA+ community?

Mental health support is crucial for the LGBTQIA+ community due to the stigma and discrimination they may face. Providing access to mental health resources helps address the unique challenges and mental health disparities that queer individuals may experience.

How can dialogue and conversation contribute to combating homophobia?

What are some specific steps individuals can take to combat homophobia in their communities?

How can mental health resources be made more accessible to queer individuals?


 

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